Hey pinn,

It would be a shared membership as I would only be able to go when she is not there. But yes I don't really like the idea as I bet she knows people there and they would fill her in on what I am doing. I don't know if she knows people there, just a possibility. It would be free she said she would just pay for her membership that includes mine.

But really is anything free?

She just emailed me about me looking after the kids again for when she goes to a wedding. I have said no already and she is asking one more time. She says she will try to fly back so I am not looking after them for so long.

I so want to send a truth dart email, saying really? you want me to change my plans for you? Why?, you left me, broke up the family, don't want to work on anything. Why would I make my life harder so that you can go to a wedding??

or

Your a big girl you can figure out something. I have plans that day, I cant look after the kids.

Or

I just ignore the email. That is a lot easier to just leave it and not answer her.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016