im positive she is cake eating at times. amongst other things. and at times she really perseus me. she seems to be at a stage where she is bouncing back and forth. she puts one foot on and then takes it back off. almost as if she is ready to jump off of a cliff, but cant quite do it.
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Now put your right foot in Your right foot out Right foot in Then you shake it all about And then you do the hokey pokey Turn yourself around That's what it's all about
I'm having serious doubts that's what it's all about.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day
im halfway convinced at this point, that she has another man friend or the same old one stirring up her interest.
after we kissed last weekend, its like a bomb went off in her brain. things totally changed and she has been completely turned off towards me. and she is hiding everything from me. acting very withdrawn towards me, the kids and everyone else, except for her single friends.
she is acting EXACTLY like she did in the past when she was having an EA.
today was one of our kids birthday parties and we had both families over and some of the friends of our kids. she wouldn't make eye contact with me. looked completely guilty all day. and sat by herself with her phone and checked it every 10 min. not to mention she has now put a lock on her phone ( yeah i know, dont snoop ).
her behavior has taken such a change in direction. she went from making me dinner a couple times a week and dropping it off. texting me all day long off and on, asking me to hang out, spending lots of time together, asking me out on a date. having a great time and ending it with a kiss. and then to nothing except for guilty looks and let me know when i get the kids back......and a few random compliments. which is so weird. wth ? you look nice today......and then not making eye contact and walk away.....
i have pulled away. i dont initiate text, calls, nothing. when we are together like today at the party. i stayed at a distance. i was cordial, and pulled my own weight at set up and teardown for the party, but i didnt go overboard. i just kinda helped out where needed, but didnt do any extra. its time to pull back and see what happens. talking to my coach on thursday night too.
i approached her this morning. she started dating a new guy. theyve gone out on 2 dates and kissed. she is a mess right now and so am i. im sooo pissed. more to follow , i gotta cool down.
Follow sandi's rules for WW's. I know you haven't wanted to in the past but that got you to OM2. You haven't given your W a reason to believe you are not available for plan B. Therefore, she is free to have family life with you and all the other romance and emotional fix from one OM to another. You have to give her a reason to believe you are not available for plan B EVER.
Me:49 W:45 M:19 T:22 EA confirmed and ended 8/2014 S:19,17 D:9,5
i contacted the OM2. he had no idea. he broke it off with her and she came flying over to talk to me. told me she is going to call the lawyer tomorrow morning to proceed with divorce.
