Rsg, This is why I was saying that it's so important to GAL for yourself right now. You have to be happy with or without spouse. If not, she will immediately pick up on the "wanting it to work" from you. Not by you words or actions, but she will just "feel" it That's why in this case you can't fake it. It won't last.
My W got another tattoo as well. I think she was surprised because I actually liked it. And she could tell that it was genuine when I said so. Because it was. I've never been a tattoo guy either, but I also was looking at my W as a "dream woman" and not someone who is her own individual self and has her own wants and needs. Which aren't just me and my son. I see things so differently now.
Just keeping working on you. I agree with darkness. Pull back on the communication
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it