Your WH is not a nice person, plainly. I'm sorry that he continues to try to drag you down. You are so much better than him.

I wonder sometimes if WH has found my posts, too, as I am also a bit forthright. I just hope that he's too tied up in OW and his own self-absorption to bother looking.

I hope that you start feeling better PDQ, Miss Vanilla. Pneumonia can really take the wind out of your sails, literally.


(((((lovely Vanilla)))))


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16