Your H is all over the place isn't he? I feel like I'm watching a tennis match.
Detach, sit on the curb, whatever, let him even out some. I think I read a suggestion that you go semi-dark, something like that and see what happens.
I stayed away for the BB this weekend, but have been thinking about a lot of the sitches here and am gaining an outsider view even of my own stich. And WOW..what we are going through..is amazing.
You see these sitch's on sitcoms all the time, but you don't see the REAL emotions, the REAL feelings of what is really going on, the heartache, what the children really are going through..but it is life 101.
We are all living our lives here, becoming better, more loving, compassionate people all due to our world being blown apart by our S's who we thought we knew. I guess we can never really know a person too well.
I mean you read in the paper all the time about someone who's flipped out, killed his family, his neighbors, his kids, whatever and the first words out of someone's mouth who thought they knew that person are "he/she was such a nice person"
I hope you have a great day. You are a wonderful, thoughtful, loving person and you have it all right NOW..with/or without your H.
