I'm not sure how the forgiveness thing would work, I really don't know what would be a good way to get closure. It must be such a strange situation to be in. I was eating something around D the other day (not sure where or what) and the writer was saying how odd a time it is. When you get married you want everyone to know, you invite people to celebrate with you, it is the beginning of a new life. What about when you divorce though? What then? Sorry I have no answers, I just found it interesting.
I am sorry about your friend's diagnosis, I hope everything goes well for her, and she recovers gully!
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”