I hope you get there soon, Phoebe! I was amazed how suddenly I went from 3 hours of crying every night to nothing. I can't explain it.

My original plans got a little derailed with the final BD when I found out that H had moved OW in and I ended up quitting my new job because of the breakdown I had - but the plan is to save up for a downpayment and get a loan and buy my own place. I would have had to find a better paid job anyway.

Right now I'm not putting too much pressure on myself because I need to heal. I'm being a little self-indulgent this summer. My son is fine with me staying for a year if I need to - we get along great and I have enough to do on my own to where he has some time to himself. Come fall, I'll try to make some bigger decisions.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17