Divorced and so grateful

[RosaLinda]

Ha, thanks to all of you for thinking I am a nice person and not a spineless wuss for not telling my ex to never darken my doorway again, or worse! I work with a bunch of divorced women who really would tell their exes to fvck off, and sometimes I wish I could be a strong personality like them. But on the other hand, they are all bitter and resentful and negative, and who wants to be like that? Not me.... Thank God for you all and DBing.

So here's the love birds' latest - they set a wedding date and my ex already postponed it. And I was talking to his poor elderly mom and she asked if I have any advice about how to deal with having them live in her house; she said it's so hard. I told her she could always ask them to leave. But she said how could she, he's her son. Enablers all around, including myself, LOL

Job, I have not spoken to Nero in ages, at least six months, and am worried about her too. I'm pretty sure that the last time I spoke to her, she said that she and her H were going to Europe together, or somewhere else awesome. She was talking about the problems she was having with her sisters regarding selling her mom's house, and that she was getting tired of standing, but did not really know what to do with her life. I've left her a couple of messages on her answering machine since then, but she never called me back.

URWorthy is okay, she's been going thru some personal stuff and is taking a break from the forum for a bit. I'll tell her you were asking for her - I'm sure she'll be very touched!

And how are you doing Job? What's new with you?