im halfway convinced at this point, that she has another man friend or the same old one stirring up her interest.
after we kissed last weekend, its like a bomb went off in her brain. things totally changed and she has been completely turned off towards me. and she is hiding everything from me. acting very withdrawn towards me, the kids and everyone else, except for her single friends.
she is acting EXACTLY like she did in the past when she was having an EA.
today was one of our kids birthday parties and we had both families over and some of the friends of our kids. she wouldn't make eye contact with me. looked completely guilty all day. and sat by herself with her phone and checked it every 10 min. not to mention she has now put a lock on her phone ( yeah i know, dont snoop ).
her behavior has taken such a change in direction. she went from making me dinner a couple times a week and dropping it off. texting me all day long off and on, asking me to hang out, spending lots of time together, asking me out on a date. having a great time and ending it with a kiss. and then to nothing except for guilty looks and let me know when i get the kids back......and a few random compliments. which is so weird. wth ? you look nice today......and then not making eye contact and walk away.....
i have pulled away. i dont initiate text, calls, nothing. when we are together like today at the party. i stayed at a distance. i was cordial, and pulled my own weight at set up and teardown for the party, but i didnt go overboard. i just kinda helped out where needed, but didnt do any extra. its time to pull back and see what happens. talking to my coach on thursday night too.
