I have a question I'd like to pose.

In a previous post I indicated I would consider allowing H to stay at my (our) place instead of at his parents when he comes back IF he asked (I would never volunteer that).

My IC thinks I should tell him he has to get rid of the OW before he can stay in my home.

I can see her point and I think she's trying to look out for my mental and emotional well-being. But it sounds like an ultimatum and pressure.

Thoughts?


Me: 59 and holding
H: :53
Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown
M: 19
T: 23
BD: 9-23-2013