My little slice of Life..

[Tofbrks]

Frankly, I believe if a couple is to define their M status as separated, they should live in S houses. I have not seen positive results from a so called in-house S. I have seen positive results with living in S houses.

In-house separation is the biggest cake eating ever!

Sandi2 I have finally found proof of an affair. My family is at the beach with my inlaws. My daughter has s MacBook that she watches Netflix on. While back her phone had broken and she used the Mac to iMessage friends. While checking messages she came across messages from my sis inlaw to my w. Talking about affair and being happy. The next was between the best friend of the op and my wife. Talks of how they make each other happy and that if I "F" with op that they would kill me or my wife says she would kill me and dispose of my body easily.
Now this had to be discovered by accident by my d13. And she is angry. I am 4hrs away and unable to comfort her. We are the only ones that know she found this information, except for my close family who counsel me.
At first learning this info yesterday I was or felt empowered and strong. Today it's another story.. Empty house , knowledge of affair, slow day...cycle of ups and downs.
Went to church today , just feel as though it somewhere I need to be. She has several friends there and quickly got txt saying why are you at church ? All those Sunday's you worked or didn't go with us.. Rarely worked on Sunday and sometimes took the day off from everything since it was my only day off...to rest and recharge... Not every Sunday perhaps once a month.so I guess this is rewrite?
Kinda at a loss as what to do with my new found info... A have a week to think and let stuff play out while they are at beach.
W is still pressing for a separation agreement so she can carry on this relationship without scrutiny.? She has no where to go .. One that the kids could stay.
Should I expose my proof of affair to inlaws and others? Use it for bargaining tool?
At this time im done with M ... When your wife says she wants you dead and dispose of your body and goes on to say she'll feel no remorse... Time to run and don't look back