I agree, but the dilemma I have is that my kids Will no longer be welcomed to see their cousins whom there basically grown up with.
Why? Are you saying your sister would ban her brother's children from seeing her kids? Why would she punish your children?
Are you saying that you would cover the A, and continue to live a lie........so the kids can play together?
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She says the PA is over with the other guy but she is still friends with him on facebook as well. I think it's definitely ok to insist she unfriend that d bag. How do I persuade her to remove these guys from her life?
Do you know how many affairs your W has had since you've been together?
I want to get off of this for just a little bit and ask you about your parents. What are they like as a couple? Who would you say is in charge of their relationship, and which one leads?
How close are you and your dad?
I hope you will answer these questions.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!