Working on me and letting it play out

[cbtdad]

Yeah I noticed that last night.
I apologized this morning for being "dicki$h"
Last night I was able to say something like that before I went to bed
I said, "It's got to be tough having so much on your plate right now. I understand you may not want to discuss it right now, but I just wanted let you know I'm here to listen when you need it"
So we talked and joked about other things
Anyways this morning I woke up to a text that said, "let's go have breakfast somewhere"
I said ok
We went to breakfast and then went shopping for fireworks
Afterwards we went looking at houses around us in new neighborhoods and she talked about moving.
Crazy. she wants to look at newer houses together, etc
But we are still in separate bedrooms
I do feel things are getting closer
I know she needs to trust me emotionally before the physical stuff is gonna happen so I'm not pushing anything
I think I'm gonna bring up in MC next session that a goal should be to be back in same bedroom by the end of the month
We shall see