RSG! Hang in there buddy. The roller coaster ride is about to get bumby:)
I'm speculating, but it is starting to seem like where my W was in the first sitch when she was starting to feel unsure. When the OM was becoming less of a factor and she started noticing more of a change in me. Next thing you know we were doing thing as a "family"
We still loved apart for another few months and it wasn't till OM was completely out of picture that we could start focusing on "us"
There are gonna be moment where it feels like old times and that you should just jump bacon into things. Then there are gonna be times where she is the person that you don't recognize again. It will become more to the extreme each way.
This is when it's really important to continue doing things for you. Things that make you better. Because it's very easy to go back to the old ways. It's important that you work on you everyday like you have been.
Keep it up. You're doing great!!
Running the peachtree on an empty stomach in Hotlanta on the 4th is a very bad idea
We should meet up sometime and let our sons swim together
Have a great 4th!


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it