Water,
I am so sorry.
I know this is devastating for you.
You have worked so hard.

However... you H now has what he was certain he wanted. He knew it would make him happy.

So... maybe the watching from the curb will get a bit interesting, who knows.

In the meantime, do for you... and know that we are thinking about you.

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.