I'll add this because it literally came to me in a dream just now.
He tries to explain how important it is to you, how it's necessary to him. You hand him a list of what you need to feel sexual desire, and what you'd need to be the woman he wants to be. You ask "which of these items is unreasonable, what is on this list that you can't provide me?" And he looks at it in despair and defeat and says "I don't know, everything looks fine and I want to do it, I just know no matter what I do somehow some condition won't be met right and I will end up dying inside..."
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
