Rose88,

I am sorry about your sitch.

Have you considered going for sex therapy on your own? Also have you read Michele's Sex starved marriage?

The point Zeus is making is found in Michele's SSM.

I was in a SSM for many years. After reading Michele's SSM, I finally got what the x had been trying to tell me for years.

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.