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Re: Focus on the work, not the when Melo #2688879 07/02/16 09:59 PM
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SH_ Member S Joined: Mar 2016 Posts: 1,732	I completely get what you are saying about trying to be the man you were not before the BD. You can still do that, just look to do it with things that do not help her with her decision to leave you. There is no value in that for her, nor you. I know that you know that so take this as a brotherly love tap to your noggin with my sledgehammer my friend. What have you planned for you now that the separation has taken place? What is your GAL plan? Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017 It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine

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Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/07/16 08:36 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/07/16 09:50 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/07/16 04:30 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/07/16 04:44 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/07/16 09:05 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/08/16 01:10 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/08/16 01:13 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/08/16 03:15 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	04/08/16 03:18 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/09/16 06:27 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/10/16 03:31 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/11/16 08:51 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/11/16 07:58 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/11/16 08:48 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	04/11/16 08:57 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/11/16 10:00 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/13/16 07:42 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/17/16 10:41 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/20/16 01:39 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/21/16 02:15 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/21/16 02:31 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/23/16 01:16 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/26/16 11:17 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/26/16 11:20 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/26/16 12:07 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/26/16 12:39 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/26/16 01:02 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	J5K	04/26/16 01:07 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/26/16 02:20 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/27/16 08:06 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/27/16 08:05 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/28/16 09:52 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/28/16 09:59 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/28/16 10:01 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	CWOL	04/28/16 10:44 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/28/16 11:27 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	CWOL	04/28/16 11:36 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/29/16 02:51 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	vise82	04/29/16 04:47 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	04/29/16 06:02 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/29/16 10:53 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/01/16 01:55 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/01/16 06:52 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/02/16 08:50 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/06/16 08:12 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	05/07/16 06:35 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/11/16 05:43 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	vise82	05/11/16 06:29 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	05/11/16 07:31 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/11/16 07:47 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/13/16 04:28 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 03:47 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/16/16 07:14 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 09:52 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	AndrewP	05/16/16 10:07 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/16/16 11:23 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 11:26 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 11:29 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/16/16 01:40 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 03:52 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Ralph88	05/16/16 04:17 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 06:37 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Ralph88	05/16/16 07:23 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	vise82	05/17/16 06:46 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/17/16 10:33 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/17/16 08:10 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/17/16 08:21 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/18/16 06:35 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	05/18/16 07:52 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/19/16 07:12 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	collin	05/19/16 07:29 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/21/16 12:55 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/21/16 01:16 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/21/16 03:35 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/21/16 03:37 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	J5K	05/21/16 06:23 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/22/16 07:34 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/22/16 07:36 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	coffee_	05/22/16 08:09 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/23/16 07:14 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/24/16 11:26 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/25/16 09:17 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/25/16 11:19 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	06/01/16 08:48 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/02/16 03:17 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/16/16 01:31 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	06/17/16 02:59 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/27/16 08:02 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	06/27/16 08:38 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/28/16 07:14 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	MoveFrwd	06/28/16 08:21 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/28/16 09:00 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/02/16 09:03 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/02/16 09:11 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	07/02/16 09:15 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/02/16 09:40 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	07/02/16 09:59 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/02/16 10:55 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	07/03/16 11:03 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	07/06/16 09:09 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/08/16 01:18 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	job	07/08/16 01:22 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	ForGump	07/25/16 02:07 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/26/16 04:50 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Buxom	07/25/16 01:44 PM

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