What should I be Doing (piecing 6)

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And this is why I questioned your experience knowledge. I have to work through enough of my emotions in dealing with my sitch without someone bringing their emotions into my sitch for me to also have to deal with.

Cnut, I have lurked silently on your threads for sometime now, but not chimed in as your sitch is one that I did not get the pleasure of going through.
But as I have noticed so many chiming in and with often varying viewpoints I am intrigued as the advice varies and probably due to each persons personal experiences.
DBing states that one should try what works until it does not and then try something else. Avoid the cheesless tunnels if you will.

I don't have any advice on what you should do and my opinion would simply be to work with a DB coach if you are not already as they would seem to be the best option for experienced knowledge and leaving out their emotions.

I am pulling for you and hope to watch your switch play out in a very positive outcome.