First thought -Would you let your neighbor clean up around your place when visiting? If the neighbor made comments for attention about it, how would you respond?
Second thought - You may be over thinking every little thing. Read back on this thread and you sound as if every comment or minor action she takes needs a perfect comment or reaction from you. The path she is headed down will not be swayed by you at this point. Act according to that thought and you will be on track. Do what works. Monitor it. When it does not work do something else.
Trust yourself. You have been at this long enough to know that you need to be the man only a fool would leave. What would that MAN do in the situation you are asking everyone for feedback on?
That is your answer my friend.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
