I don't k ow how our situation is ever going to get better. Yes, our relationship had its problems but that's in the last and nothing we do now can change that. His concern is that we're not gonna get the spark back. I obvisually can't guarantee that, but nothing's gonna happen if we don't try. I know I can't get him to try but I hate feeling so helpless


Me: 37
Husband: 35
Married 5 years, together 13
Daughter - 1
Bomb dropped - 12/28/2015
He's moving out (officially) - 4/15/2016
EA confirmed 6/1/16
PA confirmed 8/1/16