Working on me and letting it play out

[cbtdad]

Thanks for the prayers and thoughts Cnut

I didn't end up getting off work till around 7
W asked if I would like to join her and another friend of ours for dinner
I told her yes, I was on my way.
Well I got stuck behind a wreck and told her
To go she was without me so they wouldn't have to wait
She said she would order. I said no, I don't want y'all to have to wait
She then said, "ok fine"
I said, "sorry if your mad. Just didn't want y'all to have to wait"

Anyways fast forward and hour and she gets home
We barely say anything to each other. Not because I'm mad, im just tired and she was out in garden.
Anyways I go upstairs and ask if she talked to her brother and mom.
She said no. Said she just couldn't deal with it.
I just said, lobviously you don't want to discuss it. Good night"

This is the women I am married to. She just buries her feelings and emotions.
She doesn't talk about these things.
It's why I've said so many times now that if she doesn't work on herself and these
Issues that it will never work
We won't be able to be happy

I do want to help however I can. But if she doesn't want to discuss it then I'm not sure what I can do