Your post was damn near amazing. I'm going to print it out at work, answer the questions and keep it at home for me to reference.
You may have hit something with the "rock bottom" comment. After everything in the last 24 hrs, she missed his bedtime and I text her about it. She told me she's getting therapy starting Tuesday. I'm shocked really.
As I write this, she called. In between mundane stuff about S, she said "we got married because I was pregnant" then she again said "I'm sorry. I know you know I am, but I feel I just need to keep saying it." Followed by she was going to "figure it out" and do the right thing by everybody (me, S, her friends, etc). I said, whatever you think is right and she responded "would you let me move back in." SHOCKED, I took a second and I said we'd have to discuss. She was thrown for a loop because I didn't say YES YES YES then immediately said she shouldn't have asked, but THEN asked if we could all do something tomorrow and said she'd touch base in the AM.
I don't know what to believe. I think she's embarrassed, scared and nervous but I have no idea what her end game is. I think she's scared to lose me. But I can't play too many mind games. I want to hear a request for forgiveness and, for her to move back home NC w/OP is mandatory.
I just have to wait and see what she says tomorrow. Holy cow, what developments in 24 hours....
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.