MS, I totally agree with Sotto. Don't give that power to OW and your H.
Do what makes you comfortable but don't let them dictate your
In seems like in both our cases, the OWs are like the dementors in Harry Potter - souless dark creatures that thrive on fear and need. Banish yours away with confidence and brightness and love.
(((MS)))
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
