Hi Phoebe, I'm pleased to read about the frank email to your male friend. You were doing the big thing I took away from reading Codependent No More - asking the question 'what do I need to do to look after myself in this situation - and doing it. Plus, it was respectful and received well - great stuff.

Xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus