Awkward situation

[Surfer]

Tate. My WW had an EA. I accessed some texts etc and met the OM. I honestly got very little benefit out of it. Even though I thought the OM was a looser. I would personally advise staying clear. You have to think about this and it is your choice but how can you use the information you find. She will only twist whatever you say and use it against you. If not you will only feel more pain. I would advise distancing yourself so you feel as near to zero pain as possible from any thoughts of her and the OM and her generally. Respect and love her still but to be immune from any perceived power or control you have previously given her is, I am sure, the answer. Work on your own independence and happiness my friend. You can't loose with that. I wish you well. Surfer.