My wife walked out 3

[RSG]

Well, I know I can't put my eggs in any basket but mine and S, but the tables may be turning as Sandi notes in her posts on WW. It could be another temp check, since I haven't been showing much interest, but it could also be her being afraid that she's losing me. She just text "You're really done with me, aren't you?"

Talk about something I WAS NOT EXPECTING!!

I thought hard about it. Wrote out a response, read it over and over, and wasn't happy with anything. Then she called, asking if I were asleep (because sometimes when S naps we take a short snooze). I just said no, and she said ok that she was just checking up on me. I ended up texting "I'm not really ready to make a major decision on anything right now."

Honestly, I just want to take things day by day and see what happens. She's an emotional wreck right now. I was tempted to ask about the A, but wasn't that stupid lol. I guess I just really need to stick to the DBing hard. I like where I'm going as a man and I love being a daddy. I'd LIKE my wife to commit and work for this family. In addition to the obvious, I'd be really proud of her growth as a person by fighting for this. I have no intention of filing for D anytime soon, but in all honesty I think separation has been good for me; my relationship with S growing by the minute, learning mental toughness, improving my social skills, investing in myself.