Hi Babe, for me with birthdays - first one after BD I sent a card, this year I mentioned HBD in an email (replying to one of his.) Next year I wouldn't plan on acknowledging it in any way.

I certainly wouldn't be making plans for his BD and at most would consider a card or text from you.

JMHO of course :)x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus