Thanks, lfm. I went to a joint 40th birthday party put on by my sister last month and played it off as if I was having the best night of my life. My wife was sweating bullets, afraid I was going to confront my BIL in front of both our families.

This trip is a more intimate setting, and Im not sure if I can pull it off. This is what really [censored] about this whole thing...my wifes affairs have made it akward and painful for me at family events when she should be the miserable one.


M 17 years
3 kids
EA start 2010
ILYBNILWY 1/2014
PA 1/2016
Bomb drop 2/2016
Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016
Living as roommates, EA continues