Thanks betterm I do think W is seeing the "steps" At least she says so in MC. But she is definitely skeptical and it's just gonna take time. It does seem more and more that things are headed in the right direction, but you never know. Interesting thing today that kind of tested my mind frame. I was cleaning out my gmail account and I came across emails to myself that I saved from 3 years ago. They were screen shots that I had taken from snooping when W was involved with OM I must say it was very tough to go doen that path and see those again. I haven't deleted them yet and I don't know why. Seeing them brought up some very tough memories of being lied to over and over. I must say this time though that "pit in the stomach" feeling lasted less than a minute and I was over it.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
