" When you are aware of potential finance problem, a responsible adult DO NOT SPEND RETARDESLY!!!! he get prepare and sells stuff if needed. now, isn' t little lady your partner? How does she contribute in this. Shouldn' t she be trying to work WITH you to make sure it does not happen? HER- NOT ME. you discarded me. you keep telling me that your choices are none of my business. TRUE !! But your problems are also YOURS, NOT MINE !!