well, so much for progress.. set back once again. Ex- husband sold his Jeep and car to purchase abrand 4runner for current little lady and a brand new truck for him. Fine. Nice. He has plan to take our kids to Canada' s wonderland. Son is not interested in going. He has told ex-husband 3 times NO and was getting aggravated. Son just started working not long ago and we just purchased a car for him. He needs the income.
Yesterday, ex-husband calls me and tell me about a possible financial crisis coming soon. The votes are in and they are going on strike without pay. ( hum.. does not make sense to me ). He gives me the "Poor me, I don' t know how i' m gonna do this and since you and the kids will be affected, thought i' ld let you know! also, I don' t have much myself. This trip has been put on my credit card. could you give the kids a bit of money?
Yesterday, Me and daughter3 go to the bank and walk by a 4runner. she sais:" look, this is like dad' s one". we walk in and there he is at the cash machine. daughter goes to him and I continue to the counter. he said hi and kept taking care of his business while on the phone. she stood there waiting. once I was done, I walked outside and she joined me. we waited out there for at least 10 minutes. while there, I saw that little lady was in the truck. she could not even look at us. ex- husband finally walk out and right away starts talking about son. " What is with him? what' s up with the attitude? looks like he could use a slap in the head". me: " what!!!??? " " he told you 3 times he did not want to go. He is working those days and can not afford to miss work."
And there it was!! HUGE fight over the child support and accusation of my money management. I got sooooo angry. we yield at one another right there in the middle of the street and I walked away, pissed. Once home, the texting match started.
