That is exactly what has been happening in my house. They don't want to talk about it. In reality they feel like crap for what they have done. Ignoring the A and the separation is just the easy way out.
Hmm. Mine gets angry if I mention anything, and I'm trying to stop caring. I'm trying to do right, if she wants to continue to do wrong that's on her. She's mentioned D a couple times, in about 40 days. I think it was more as threats to try to get what she wants though.
Everything they do, once the A starts, is the easy/cowardly way out....
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.