Enjoying the mountains today! lots of time to ponder things.

Question for you all - how many of your WAS are trying to work with you amicably through your DB'ing. Mine seems to want to stay friends, work on things that are mutually beneficial (Kids, investments, real estate) but is totally ignoring the elephant in the room (The A and the separation).

It does make for a more peaceful separation, especially around D and ensuring things are well taken care of but at the same time I don't know if it hurts or helps the situation.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17