I'm glad to see that you are standing your ground w/your xh. I'm sure he had to eat a lot of crow before he called you about the fees since he was such an @sshole about the train. It's unfortunate that he's in a tight financial situation, but he should be watching his money a bit better.

I'm really sorry that he's put you in a money pinch, but make sure you stay on Child Support about the funds. I don't believe for a minute he had things set up w/his disability checks so that you get your child support. He may have thought it was done....but he should have checked on that periodically to ensure it was done properly.

If he's on medical leave from his job, how can he get disability pay? Does he actually get paid for being out sick or is it leave w/o pay?

All I can say about the man is that he should have thought about what he did to you and your son w/respect to the train set. Had he behaved in a proper manner, maybe you would have been a bit more sympathetic towards him and his situation. They always think the grass is going to be greener on the other side and when things get tough, they call whining about their problems and hoping that we will help them out. He's now having to face the consequences of his actions.

Hang in there!


Last edited by job; 07/01/16 01:32 PM.
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