So after the antics X pulled, he has the nerve to call me and complain about money. AND expect sympathy. HA!
He has been on medical leave for rotator cuff surgery and I haven't received any child support in June. Bills are tight, but I'm doing okay. He owes me over $1000 by the way, which is a lot of money. I called child support after the antics he pulled last Friday to see what was going on. They haven't received a payment from him since May 27. Child support called him to see what was going on. X claims he had child support pulled from his disability checks, but nothing has been mailed into the child support agency. He is really freaking out about this.
Yesterday he calls me in a panic because he agreed to pay for D's soccer fees and they came in much higher than he anticipated. He agreed to pay for D's fees if I paid for S's fees. S's fee is $400 and X was under the impression D's fees would only be $225. I explained to X a month ago before tryouts that if she stayed at the academy level her fee would only be $225, but if she advanced to the competitive level they would be significantly more. He argued with me and said that wasn't the case. I said "OK, whatever you say".
He found out yesterday that D's fee is $680. He called me and said he could cover it with a credit card but he needed my half of the money right away. LOL. I gently reminded him that I agreed to pay for S's fees and I certainly was not going to nor could I afford to pay for S's fees and half of D's soccer at the same time. He went dead silent (which is extremely unusual and actually somewhat frightening). He just kept repeating "that's a lot of money". He didn't seem to have a problem paying $550 for S's fees last year.
I told him to check into going on a payment plan. He said if I do that I'll have to pay a $25 late fee. I said would you rather pay $25 for a late fee or cough up money that you don't have all at once? He said he wasn't paying $25 for a late fee. I said then I guess you have made your choice.
And I know he's full of crap because I am on a payment plan for S's fees (which I tried to explain to him) but he says the club will not accept a payment plan. Well, apparently not from him. LOL.
So he's late on child support, calls the cops on me, tells the kids bad things about me and he expects me to have sympathy for him and to help him out? HA!
He texted me last night too to tell me the fee was paid, but it really hurt him. Good. I told him later on I would take on another fee for the kids, like their uniforms or school fees.
Sometimes I think he's losing his marbles. If he has any left to lose at this point.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
