In the UK - PT 18 'Dark O'Clock'

[NDY]

Problem for us here mate is we don't know where your S is on the spectrum. And even if we did we lack the medical knowledge to understand just how serious this situation is. You're clearly annoyed about this, and that's fair enough. We also don't know how capable your SD is at looking after your S. But I wonder, and go with me on this. If it were just the hernia, minus the tummy tuck would you still be so annoyed?

I'm trying to play devil's advocate here because I still sense that underlying issue with your STBXW's MLC. It's still playing on your mind IMO or you wouldn't have mentioned it. All I'm saying is that if it is bothering you then this is the right place and the right time to let it out. Discuss it here.