Gratitude... I am thankful for phones, texts, and emails. As much as I gripe about the constant flow of communication and the noise that accompanies it, it has allowed me to stay in touch with some superb individuals. Like any tool, a phone can be used for good or for ill. It depends on the person controlling it. I am thankful for Music. It is no secret to folks here that I cherish certain songs (see DB songbook for examples). Music has gotten me out of many a funk, and in 2016 I have unlimited access to any song I want, when I want it. People are always surprised when they hear that I don't drink. Music is my drug of choice.
Update... I was dreading it for a long time, but last night I walked through the house with WW and made lists, dividing up our possessions. It was really depressing, but on the outside I was very business-like. There was not much dispute and WW did not object to any of my requests. So that was a first step. I think I was able to suppress my passive-aggressiveness. Giving myself a pat on the back. Yay me.
I found out the outcome of the Ls-only meeting. Now there is supposed to be a settlement conferences in 2.5 months. This is insane. It is just dragging on and on. My W asked why things are dragging on like this. I can't believe she has no clue. I wanted to tell her it is because she switched Ls, decided to go to court, then decided to go back to the negotiating table, only to make numerous entirely unreasonable - impossible to realistically grant - requests. She really doesn't understand that for a D she requested, she has become its biggest obstacle to progress. I have jumped through every hoop asked of me - and in as timely a manner as possible, considering I also have a full-time job. yet the weeks turn into months, and the months turn into years. BD #1 was August 2013. stop the merry-go-round. Please.
