My mom (who is a feminist with a PHD) said "people that say the kids have to come first are making excuses because they don't want to put what's needed into the relationship".
This speaks to me greatly. It's what my WW has repeated over and over (even though she dumped both S and I day after day to go play single woman for at least 5 months) since she walked out. Just a lame excuse. Our S is so important, but she's using him to fuel her selfish actions rather than actually looking out for him. Thank you for sharing this, I'll never take that phrase (our S comes first) seriously again.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
