Maybe I should add, some friends of mine who went through a similar experience where OW was pursuing a friends husband. He wasn't returning the pursuit but it was causing problems between him and W, he moved departments for his W to prove his loyalty. She has told me of the great strides that he is doing to rebuild trust even considering he didn't get involved with OW.
When I see them, that's when I see things about what it means to be truely loved by a spouse.
