No, I really am just bothered about the kids. I have been in contact with SD and they are coming here to stay later. I can't allow my S (who's autistic) to be left with my SD.
Do I go and visit? Seems that would be a no from on here. That seems a little cold to me, but I can see how that would show detachment.
Ok mate. If you say so. As the kids are with you then that will at least put your mind at rest.
As for the visiting thing, well that's really up to you but the view should be that you are getting on with your life and she's getting on with hers. Lets be honest here if she wanted you to visit she would have told you about the op in the first place. An she also must think she had made adequate arrangements for your kids. Ok so you don't agree with her assessment of those provisions but rest assured this will happen more and more the longer you are both separated. You just have to accept that this is the case.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
