cake eating and friend zone all rolled into one. Neither are good alone but it looks like you have them both at the same time. Ouch!
So how long are YOU willing to do this dance? Plot a course to when YOU need your W to be firmly committed to the M or you will move on. If it's tomorrow so be it. If it's a year then that is your timeline. You need to drive the timeline that fits YOUR needs, not hers.
Big goals are best achieved by pursuing shorter term, smaller goals that get you to the end you want. Your big goal is a W firmly committed to the M. What are the short term steps that get you there? These are also on your timeline. Track progress and make corrective actions as needed to stay on course.
Nobody plans to fail, but failing to plan is one of the surest ways to failure.
Me:49 W:45 M:19 T:22 EA confirmed and ended 8/2014 S:19,17 D:9,5
