In the UK - PT 18 'Dark O'Clock'

[NDY]

Hi mate

I think your real issue is being left out of the loop. Ye are separated.SShe can do what she wants ....... within reason.

Right on the money. Come on, be honest with us here. This is what's really bothering you imo. And that's fine. But it's not really any of your business if your STBXW decides to go for cosmetic surgery.

it's about the lack of care for the kids

Really? I don't believe this is the case. If your kids were in any sort of danger/being neglected you would step right in there and take them to your house, no questions asked. besides, SD knows where you are, right?

but how can she look after them when she has a gaping wound in her stomach?

Women have cesarean sections all the time and are just fine. So will your WAW.

So Huddy, what has this little episode shown us? I think mate, you are still very much attached. Very much. I may be wrong but I don't think I am.

Like rd said, it's her circus and IMO she most likely feels she doesn't need to inform you nor cares to do so. This is the game you are in now mate.

Be strong.