Yeah for you, Painter! Congratulations on your first client and I am so glad to hear that you had a day with genuine happiness in it again. Even-keeled days are good ones in my mind, too. frankly, any day without tears is a good one in my mind. smile

That clause in your separation agreement is definitely a sexist and controlling one. I hope that you are able to get it changed soon.

I hope today brings you peace and continued healing.


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16