doodle, i think I understand what you are trying to say. I will disagree with a part of it and say emphatically that it is never too late for boundaries.
Zephyr,
I agree with your disagreement. It was poor communication on my part. He does need to think about boundaries and consequences. I was trying to convey that it's time for action not just thinking.
A couple of weeks ago I would've said, "Get some boxes and tape." I was trying to be nicer and more diplomatic and it bit in the ass.
