In the UK - PT 18 'Dark O'Clock'

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Are your children in danger or not safe?

I am not condoning how she did this but I don't see the imminent danger or safety issue.

I think your real issue is being left out of the loop. Ye are separated.SShe can do what she wants ....... within reason. I don't think you need to or should react immediately. I'll let others who have more experience advise but that is my opinion. I do think you should reflect on when ye do talk as to what you will say.

I would act as if she is a neighbour. Ask how she is and move on as if it is none of your business. No big deal. But I would add that it is preferential to be aware of such events as it could impact on children

I am rushing here. That is just my initial reaction. I understand why you are unhappy. I hope you get the advice you seek.