I think deep down I knew I couldn't believe her text today, but I think maybe it's one step closer to her realizing that she's made a huge mistake.
Not that I stopped, but back to goals, GAL, and thinking about boundaries and consequences.
lfm,
You're one of those nice "welcome home" doormats and your wife is walking all over you. The problem isn't the current OM, it's all of the future OMs. The time for thinking about boundaries and consequences is long gone; you have to take action or you can decide to be happy listening to your wife's renditions of her various trysts.