Thanks for replying by the way. You avoid talking about that side of things so I wondered where ye were really at. Thanks for being honest and open. I am reflecting on some aspects of your situation and will get back to you with some thoughts if I clear them up.

Until then, Just a quick flyby to wish you a great birthday weekend. I'll raise a glass to you.

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together