when he focuses his attention on you, you feel like youre the only person in the world.
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he is very critical, bad tempered, and can completely turn every argument around to make it look like it's your fault. He is still blaming me for the break up - my jealousy and insecurity issues.
Do a little reading on Narcissists. It took me a long time after my divorce to really see it, but my ex was a narcissist. Very charming. Super-concerned with how things looked to others. And a master at gaslighting. Appears really concerned and nice on the surface, a true philanthropist - but only when it makes him look good in public. Actually very selfish when it came to helping out anybody in my family who had a legitimate need for some assistance. Lacking in true empathy.
