Hi Sotto, glad to hear you're busy and have loads going on. I understand what you're saying about how things were left with XH. If you'd agreed to remain friends do you think you could be in his and OW's company at events? It could be that it's awkward the first time then it just becomes the new normal. I don't think I could do it though. Maybe if there was another OW further down the line I would be more accepting.

Sorry to hear of your friend's diagnosis, hopefully it will be treated early enough and she will be okay.

Thank you so much for taking the time to offer your advice to me on my thread it is so kind of you and I take it all on board!

Take care xx


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014